Are you thinking about popping the question? Here's What You Need to Know Before Proposing

There's no universal formula for the perfect proposal, but careful planning is essential to the success of your big day. 

It’s natural to feel nervous—it's all part of the process! However, focusing on several key aspects can help ease the process. Once you've addressed these points, everything should fall into place. 

So, here’s a comprehensive guide we’ve put together just for you, to ensure you're fully prepared before popping the question.

1. Know Your Partner’s Preferences

Subtle Conversations: 

This is a very good place to start and is a key step as it sets the tone for the rest of your plans. So, before going down on one knee, have discussions about the future and gauge your partner’s thoughts on marriage.

Ring Preferences:

If possible, subtly find out their style preferences for engagement rings, including the type of metal, stone, and setting.

2. Know the Ring Size

Sneaky Methods: 

“Borrow” a ring they already wear and use it to get the size, or ask friends or family who might know.

Professional Sizing: 

Visit a jeweler together under the guise of browsing, and get a professional sizing done.

3. Choose the Right Ring

Budget: 

Set a budget that you’re comfortable with and stick to it. Remember, the sentiment is more important than the cost.

Quality: 

When considering diamond engagement rings, take into account the four Cs: cut, color, clarity, and carat. Be sure to thoroughly research or seek advice to get the best value for your money.

If your partner prefers something other than diamonds, there are tons of other alternatives to choose from including gemstones, sapphires, and more!

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4. Plan the Proposal Setting

Location: 

Choose a meaningful place. You can opt to choose your partner’s favorite spot, a vacation destination, or somewhere with sentimental value.

Ambience: 

Consider the atmosphere you want to create - are you going for a romantic, adventurous, intimate, or public vibe? And once you've decided on the ambience that suits your proposal vision, you can hire an event planner to assist you in bringing that vision to life.

5. Timing Is Key

Special Dates: 

Propose on a significant date, such as an anniversary or a holiday, to add an extra layer of meaning. However, it would be best to avoid proposing on a birthday, graduation or any other occasion where the focus should be solely on your partner's achievements or personal celebrations.

Private vs. Public:

Decide if your partner would prefer a private moment or a public declaration in front of family and friends. This largely depends on their personality and preference. 

Introverts may lean towards a more private setup, while extroverts might enjoy a public proposal. However, this isn’t strictly tied to their personality type, so be sure to do your research subtly without giving away your plans.

6. Personal Touches

Personalization:

There’s just something about incorporating elements that are unique to your relationship, like inside jokes, special memories, or favorite activities.

Additionally, integrating aspects of your partner's favourite hobbies, such as a beloved art piece, book, or song, can make the moment even more meaningful.

Speech Preparation: 

It’s best to prepare what you want to say beforehand. Reflect on your relationship and express your feelings sincerely.

7. Capture the Moment

Photography/Videography: 

Hire a professional crew or ask a friend to capture the moment so you can relive it and share it with loved ones.

Live Streaming: 

If you’re planning to propose in private, consider live streaming the event to close family and friends.

8. Consider Cultural/Family Traditions

Seeking Blessings: 

In some cultures, it’s customary to ask your partner’s family for blessings before proposing. So, if this is the case - ensure you do so before the proposal day.

Traditional Elements: 

You can also incorporate any traditional or cultural elements that are important to your partner.

9. Plan the Aftermath

Celebrate: 

Plan a celebration or a quiet time together after the proposal.

Announce: 

Decide how and when you will announce your engagement to family and friends.

10. Backup Plan

Ring Insurance: 

Insure the engagement ring to protect against loss or damage.

Plan B: 

Be ready with an alternative plan in case something goes wrong, like weather changes or unexpected interruptions.

11. Stay Calm and Enjoy the Moment

Relax- Nerves Are Normal: 

Remember to stay calm and enjoy the moment. Your partner will appreciate your effort and love regardless of minor hiccups.

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For more information on the different types of engagement rings, please visit our engagement ring page. We have a variety of options and price points to fit your budget. 

If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to get in touch, we're always here to help. Alternatively, you're welcome to visit our showroom and explore our collection of engagement rings in person.

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Good luck, we hope to create your special piece soon!